Each newsletter we will be sharing a virtue that will be the focus in our school over the following three weeks.  

What is Tact? Tact is telling the truth kindly, with consideration for how your words will affect others.  It is knowing what to say and what is better left unsaid.  Tact is thinking before you speak.  When you are tactful, you don't tease or point out people's differences to embarrass them.  You are as careful about others' feelings as you would like them to be of yours.

Why Practice it? When people do not practice tact, they are rude and blunt.  They go around saying whatever pops into their heads.  They may tell the truth, but they do it in a way that hurts or embarrasses others.  People get mad.  You can lose friends if you forget to act with tact.  When you are tactful, others find it easier to hear what you have to say.  Tact builds bridges.

How do you practice it? You practice tact by being kind when you tell the truth.  Stop and think before you speak.  Don't react - act with tact!  Tact is especially important when you feel angry or upset.  Rather than just shouting out your feelings, take time to calm down, and then share your feelings diplomatically.  With tact, you can tell people almost anything and they will be thankful to hear it.

Signs of Success Congratulations!  You are practicing Tact when you...

• Think before you speak.
• Decide if it is better to tell the truth or keep silent.
• Often keep unpleasant or critical thoughts to yourself.
• Become sensitive to other people's feelings.
• Tell the truth kindly and gently.
• Treat people who look differently as you would treat anyone.

"He never repented that he had held his tongue, but often that he had spoken'."  Plutarch