Each newsletter we will be sharing a virtue that will be the focus in our school over the following three weeks.  

What is Gentleness? Gentleness is acting and speaking in a kind, considerate way.  It is using self-control, in order not to hurt or offend anyone.  You can be gentle with people and animals in the way you touch them and the way you speak to them.  You handle things carefully so they will not break or be hurt.  When you think gentle thoughts, it makes the world a safer, gentler place.

Why Practice it? Without gentleness, things get broken and people feel hurt.  It is easy to become too rough or say things we are sorry for.  People are very sensitive beings.  Many things are delicate and fragile, but feelings are the most fragile of all.  When you are gentle, people and things stay safe.

How do you practice it? Gentleness is moving wisely, touching softly, holding carefully, speaking quietly and thinking kindly.  You have to think about being gentle.  Otherwise, it is easy to become too rough, move too fast or say hurtful things.  When you feel mad or hurt, instead of hurting someone back, talk things out peacefully.  When you think kindly and gently, people will see the gentleness in your eyes.

Signs of Success Congratulations!  You are practicing Gentleness when you...

• Make it safe for people and animals to be around you.
• Touch carefully.
• Speak with a soft voice.
• Express your feelings peacefully.
• Take time out when you don't feel gentle.
• Think gentle thoughts that make you smile inside.

"Use a sweet tongue, courtesy, and gentleness, and thou mayest manage to guide an elephant by a hair'."  Sa'di